Hypnotherapy

What is Hypnotherapy — and how can it help?

Most of what drives us are unconscious patterns. If you’ve been struggling with a phobia, anxiety, a habit or addiction, you will be consciously aware of what changes you want to make, but it can seem impossible to actually make them.

This is where hypnotherapy can gently support you.

A gentle, natural state

Hypnotherapy is often misunderstood. It’s not about being controlled, “put under,” or losing awareness. You are always in control.

In reality, it’s a natural, relaxed state of focused attention — something you already experience in everyday life (like when you’re absorbed in a book or lost in thought).

In this state, your mind becomes calmer, your body feels safer, and we can begin to access the deeper patterns that are driving your symptoms.

Gently working with the subconscious mind

Hypnotherapy allows us to access the subconscious mind — the part of you that holds your past experiences, patterns, and learned responses.

In everyday life, we’re mostly aware of our conscious thoughts.
But underneath that is a much deeper layer — often described as the “iceberg” — where many of our automatic reactions and behaviours are shaped.

This is where lasting change can begin.

Understanding why these patterns exist

Many of the patterns you experience — even the ones that feel frustrating or limiting — developed for a reason.

They were your mind and body’s way of keeping you safe.

For example:

  • A phobia can form when your nervous system has linked something to danger, even if that threat is no longer present

  • Anxiety or hypervigilance may have developed to help you anticipate and avoid difficult situations

  • Addictive behaviours can be your system’s way of coping with or escaping overwhelming emotions

  • Negative thought patterns may have been learned early in life to help you stay alert or protected in your environment

These responses are not flaws.

They are intelligent adaptations — created by your nervous system to help you cope at the time.

a woman laying on a couch with her eyes closed
a woman laying on a couch with her eyes closed

Creating change with understanding and compassion

The challenge is that these patterns can continue long after they are needed.

Through hypnotherapy, we can begin to gently update these responses. Not by forcing change or “getting rid” of parts of you - but by helping your mind and body feel safe enough to let go of what it no longer needs.

This is how deeper, more lasting change becomes possible.

What can hypnotherapy help with?

Hypnotherapy can be particularly supportive for:

  • Chronic pain or neuroplastic pain

  • Anxiety or panic responses

  • IBS and stress-related digestive symptoms

  • Overwhelm and burnout

  • Addictive patterns or habits

  • Phobias

  • Symptoms linked to trauma or long-term stress

Curious if this could help?

If you’re wondering whether I could support you, you’re very welcome to reach out.

We can talk through what’s been going on for you and explore what approach would feel right.

You don’t have to do this alone.

MH Wellbeing, Maria Hancock MSc GQHP

Specialist in Anxiety, Stress and Chronic Symptoms

Trauma-Informed Somatic Therapist, Hypnotherapist, Mindfulness Teacher, SIRPA Pain Recovery Practitioner

Local areas: Horley, Reigate, Redhill in Surrey and Crawley, Horsham, Copthorne in West Sussex. English Speaking Online Therapy.